Saturday, April 12, 2014

1949 - 1950 (12) Family in England; Ship from England to India



1949 – 1950  # 12 Family in England; Ship from England to India

Nov 29th, 1949

Dear Mother and all,

I wrote you a wee note on the boat, but wanted to add a little more before we sent this off air mail.  Will have to send the long news letter by ocean mail so it will take longer. 

We are on the train now from Southhampton to London.  We had no difficulty getting through customs.  We saw all of our 19 pieces of luggage as it came off the boat.  All were in good shape except one board off the bed and one new case broken at one end.  They handle them pretty rough.  We put the machine in Dorothy’s trunk and packed things around it and left it to be sent to the next boat along with the other 12 large things.  We have taken the one trunk of foods with us and when empty we can use that case to pack in from here.

It is foggy this morning so we can’t see very much of England yet.  It is cold and damp.  No heat in the train.  Children are dressed warmly and we have only a two-hour ride to London.  We will have to take a taxi out to the house of rest as we have 11 pieces of luggage with us.

Most of the homes we are passing are made of red or yellow brick – old style.  The newer ones seem to be of stucco.  The grass looks quite green yet, but is covered with white frost this morning.  Trees are bare like at home except lots of evergreens.

We are in 3rd also on the train.  2 seats facing each other on each side with a little table in between.  2nd and 1st class are in private compartments.

Ann, David and Shari are enjoying everything.  They have learned to keep pretty close to us.

Love from us all.  Want to write Edith now.
EuniceXXXXXX

The House of Rest
10 Finchley Road
London, NW 8  England

December 7th, 1949

Dear Ones All,

Greetings and love to your from Britannia!  The first two paragraphs are a repeat of Mummy’s letter above.  Our luggage was taken by porters at Victoria Station to a taxi outside.  The taxis in London are much different from our own in America—all black, old style, with a place beside the driver for carrying luggage.  The driver’s seat was on the right, of course, since the traffic in England keeps to the left.  The double decker buses are exactly the same as we have in Bombay (probably made by the same English company);  we felt at home seeing them.  London is a big, big city, but does not have buildings beyond six or seven stories – probably because of the danger of bombing.

It took only about 15 minutes for us to reach the House of Rest, where we had arranged to stay.   We met Miss Taylor, the hostess, and were shown to our rooms.  This home is an old mansion-like structure, with winding stairs and lovely large rooms.  We were allotted 2 rooms, but insisted that one was enough – we had in mind keeping our kiddies within sight.  We are on the third floor.  Soon after settling in a bit we discovered that we did not have the suitcase with David’s clothes.  Thinking back, we felt it must be at Victoria Station, so John hurried back by subway, and found it in the Lost and Found Dept.   So once more the Lord watched over His children – real children this time!

Here in our room we have three single beds, a cot, and a couch with a gas fireplace.  Near the fireplace is a meter, where pennies are inserted to obtain heat.  The fire runs high for ten minutes for one penny, or low for half an hour. After being used to plenty of heat at home, I’m afraid we required more heat than our English friends, but soon we ceased trying to heat the entire room and gathered close to the fireplace.   The kiddies took over the job of inserting pennies.   There is also a small gas ring for making tea or coffee, with kettle provided.  John makes good use of this.

We have breakfast at 8:30 in the large dining-room downstairs.  Quite a substantial breakfast of porridge, etc., toast, marmalade and tea.   On Sunday morning only a boiled egg appears.   Each person’s butter is placed beside his plate with his name on it!  This is about the only evidence of stringency in food we have seen yet in England.  We have ration cards, so can get milk at a nearby store for the children.  Lunch is 1:15 – a light meal:  tea in the drawing room at 4 pm, and dinner at 7 pm.  The kiddies have observed the English way of eating with the knife in the right hand and fork in the left;   Anne does it very well, but David and Shari have their troubles.  They also like putting their napkins into the ring after meals.  Anne puts them back into our little cubby-hole near the door while David is the self-appointed collector of hymn-books.  Morning devotions are cared for by Miss Taylor;    Workers from Burma, Africa, and China are here – also quite a number of Swedish folks learning English preparatory for the mission field.

Aboard the “Strathaired”
Between Port Said and Aden, on Red Sea
Jan 3rd, 1950

Dearly Beloved:

Almost one month has passed since I last wrote you – from London.  This is not at all as we had hoped, since we want these accounts to come to you from time to time.  We wish we could put into words that which is in our hearts concerning all the LORD’S grace and lovingkindness towards us.  The 139th Psalm comes close to expressing our feelings.

I think our last letter found us at the House of Rest.  We want to go on from there and tell you something of our 3 ½ weeks in England.   One of the first things we had to do during our first week was to get injections for typhus and cholera.  We called the China Inland Mission for advice about these, and they strongly recommended the Mildmay Mission Hospital.  So began our first subway trip from the House of Rest to the hospital – one many times repeated.  To get to the hospital, we entered the escalator ( about the longest we have seen), took one train for a few stations, got off, went down to a lower lever for another train, and after that to a Third level for our third train.  (It was in these tunnels that many Londoners slept night after night during the days of heavy bombing.)  When we arrived at our last station, we had to take other escalators to bring us up to the street level. 

The hospital is located in a poor section of the city, in which many of the residents are Jewish.   More than half of the patients in the hospital are Jewish, according to one of the attendants.  We passed many buildings on our way to the hospital where merely the walls, or one wall, of a building stood – the result of bombing.    As we entered the hospital, we saw Scripture verses printed on all main walls.  The nurse who gave us the injection was a sweet Christian girl.  We learned later that she is preparing for work in Africa.   She gave the injections very well and quickly, so the children didn’t mind the first time  ( it required one shot in each arm), even though it hurt a little.  However, when we were a week later to get the second set of injections, we had a bit more trouble.  Anne and David did pretty well, but when the nurse turned to give Shari hers, she was nowhere to be found.  Soon we discovered her hiding behind the door.

While visiting the hospital, John and I both had a checkup.  John had an X-ray of his back, but it did not show anything in particular.  The doctor suggested putting on a plaster cast, to remain on for three months, but we decided against this after prayer.   It would have made traveling uncomfortable, and certainly the heat of Bombay would have made things worse.  When the doctor examined me, she suggested that I see the surgeon the next week about a tiny growth.   I did see him, and he said it should be cared for, especially since it would mean a very minor operation and they could do it before we sailed.  We had liberty to have this done, so I went into the hospital the next Thursday, and was able to come home the following Monday – just three days before we were to sail.

I do want to tell you something of the joy of being in this Christian hospital.   All the resident nurses, sisters, and doctors are true Christians, and they certainly show fruits of the Spirit in their labor of love.   I was in a 16 bed ward.  On the wall behind each bed was an appropriate Scripture verse.   Morning and evening prayers were conducted by one of the nurses or the sister.  Beside each bed was a Bible and a hymn book.  We sang hymns together, and then turned to the Scripture portions the leader read.  The patients who did not know their Bibles well enough to turn to the portions were helped by the nurses.   After the brief message, prayer was offered for the Lord’s blessing upon the day and the lives of the patients.  Very often I would see the Sister or a nurse dealing with patients with the open Bible.   I had a long talk with the Sister one morning and she told me of some of the precious contacts she had had with different patients.  She told of one Jewish woman with whom she had dealt for a long time, who finally accepted the Lord Jesus with joy.

When one is brought into the operating theatre, he sees this verse in large letters on the wall:  “They that put their trust in the LORD shall be safe”. The verse for the surgeon and nurses is “ I will hold thy right hand.”  It certainly meant a lot to me to have even this minor thing done in a place like this.
I had to be very careful for a few days after I came home, and John had to be both Daddy and Mommie, as when I was in the hospital.  There were some lovely folks at the House of Rest who helped him with the children.  But, in spite of a few difficulties, we were able to get packed up and everything seen to about our sailing on Dec. 22.  

One of the matters which concerned us was that we might get Tourist Class on the “Straithaird”  instead of First Class.  The latter was the only thing available from America, but the headquarters of the P & O were in London, so we tried to deal with them about exchanging our class.  Although they gave a bit of hope that last-minute cancellations of others might permit us to have a cabin, they indicated that, for such a family as ours, it would be very unusual to have enough cancellations.  Tourist Class accommodations had been reserved up to April, so the only hope lay in cancellations.  When, the day before sailing, we learned that nothing was available, we accepted it as the Lord’s will and plan for us to go First Class.  It cost over $250.00 more that Tourist Class for our family of five.  Perhaps, however, it was God’s purpose for us to be in India before January 26th, when India is to be constituted a Republic, and when restrictions against evangelical workers may be more seriously enforced.  Then, too, Eunice’s visa expires on January 19th, so any delay might have endangered even this.

We did not spend all our time at Mildmay hospital.  We took the children to Trafalgar Square, in the center of London, with the monument to Lord Nelson, and four great stone lions in the Square.  The pigeons come to the Square in great flocks.  Our Kiddies enjoyed feeding the pigeons, with a number of the birds perched on Shari’s arms and head.  

On two occasions we were to see the Changing of the Guards at Buckingham Palace.   All Guards, both going out and coming in, are dressed in long coats and high, brightly polished helmets and plumage.  All of them rode beautiful large horse.  It is a pretty sight, and we all enjoyed it – David was thrilled.
Mummy talks of visiting with the Toomey Wilsons, good friends who used to live near us in Bombay, whose daughter was born in the same hospital as we were in Bombay and other sight seeing on double decker busses, and other visits with friends in England.

We shall never cease to be thankful for this time in England.  Now we can see how the LORD foresaw our need and planned that we might go that way.  Under the Health scheme now operating in England, there was no charge for all the medical attention we received there.

At 8 am we were tucked into the taxi, and started for the station.  Special boat trains were leaving for Tilbury docks, about 20 miles from London.  Again began the task of counting pieces of luggage.  A porter took over our luggage this time, and put it into the luggage van of the train.   I took the children into the train, while John made some final telephone calls.  We walked and walked from one car to the next until we began to think that all London was going on the “Straithaird”.  At last we found seats for five.  We enjoyed this two –hour trip to Tilbury in the early morning hours.  Tilbury is a point on the River Thames where it is wide and deep enough for large ships to dock.  As the train drew into the docks, we were told to remain in our seats until all luggage was taken off to the customs shed.  After more than half an hour, we were permitted to leave the train.  Customs inspection was over very quickly, also passport inspections, and soon we were following the dock porter up the gangplank of the  “ Strathaird”.



Aboard the “Strathaird”
Arabian Sea
January 5th 1950

Dear dear loved ones at home:

In just less than 48 hours, we shall be in the land of our adoption, DV, our beloved Hindustan!   It thrills our hearts.   In fact, for days we have been talking together about it, and rejoicing in the wonder of what God has done in bringing us again “unto our desired haven.”

After we got aboard the “Straithaird” at Tilbury, I waited in the lounge until John located our cabin and had seen all our cabin luggage put away.  There the children’s hostess met me and got the names, ages, and birthdays of the children, explaining about the nursery, meals hours, etc.  Being in First Class, everything was roomy and lovely.  We found that we had been assigned to 2 two bed cabins in a very nice location—close to the Purser’s office (where all the business on board is transacted) on E deck.
We were all very interested to watch them get the ship into motion.  The river was not wide at this point, and eventually became a sort of canal.  Ropes were strung to both shores, so that the ship might be guided quite carefully, even though it was going under its own power all the time.  We were going along like this for a couple of hours, then into a wider part of the Thames the rest of the afternoon, when the ropes were unnecessary.

At 11:30 we went down to take the children to lunch in the children’s dining room.  The kiddies enjoyed sitting with all the others.  However, the stewards (waiters) were quite inexperienced and that day, and almost to the end of the trip, they had their difficulties serving the children (and pleasing the parents!)  After their lunch, we took them to B deck to the nursery each day, where they remained while we had our own lunch.  All three kiddies loved the nursery for the first few days, and David and Shari still do, but Anne soon found new interests elsewhere on the boat.  After a few days, we were able to trust her by herself pretty much. She could find her way back to the cabin easily—things were not nearly so complex on the Straithaird as they were on the Queen Elizabeth.  The decks are safe and the bars of the railings are close together, so that no child could fall out unless it climbed up.

The nursery was surrounded by a high fence and a  netting inside, so everything was perfectly safe unless the door was left open—which occasionally happened.  There was a nurse in charge all the time, and usually the hostess also was present.  There was a tiny merry-go-round that Shari never tired of, a slide, and a rocking pony.  There were toys galore, and lovely English dolls, games, block, and books—with pegs to pound.  The children had biscuits in the middle of the morning.   In the afternoon they had story hour, and a time of listening to nursery rhymes on the gramophone. 

I was pretty well worn out by the time lunch was over, so went to bed and stayed there the rest of Thursday and most all day Friday.  When we got into the English Channel, we began to roll somewhat, and both Anne and David got sick, with the usual result!  They slept all Friday afternoon, though, and were ready to eat again on Saturday.   It usually takes a day or two to get one’s sea legs.  Shari and Daddy, however, never missed a meal.   I was not very seasick since I was in bed most of the day when we were tolling down the Channel.  By Saturday I felt a lot better, but all the first week had a backache probably due to catching a cold.   One week of sea air, sunshine, good food, and rest did wonders for me, and now I feel strong and well again.   I think we have all gained weight.

It was very interesting going along the coast of France, Portugal and Spain.  We did not come very near the shore at any time, but could see very well from a distance of a few miles.   It took four days to reach Gibraltar.



  But before telling you about that, I must tell you about Christmas on the boat.  Saturday night, Christmas Eve, a group of us missionaries sang carols around the decks, and outside of the First Class lounge.  The children had a special Christmas Eve party at 5 pm with fancy hats, poppers, and especially nice food.  The grownups also had a special Christmas Eve dinner, with silly hats and poppers.  We had opportunity of witness of the true Christmas message to many Indian students returning from work in England or America.

On the Lord’s Day (Christmas), things were quiet and quite nice.   In the morning we went to a crowded Anglican service in the Main Lounge.  A little dry and as someone commented on the way out “That’s the way I like it, get it over with quickly”!  It hurts our hearts that after all the Lord Jesus shed His precious blood for, so many are content with being in Church, just to get a check for the week.

In the afternoon we took the children over into Tourist Class for Sunday school.  The Salvation Army brother on board had charge, and several missionaries helped—teaching choruses, Scripture verses, and telling vital stories.  It was good, and our own kiddies enjoyed it.   One lady taught a verse that Anne already knew (Matthew 1:21) so she was able to say it first, and well, and received the chart from which the verse was taught.   

On Monday (Boxing Day to the English) there was a special party for the children.  Father Christmas arrived and brought each of the children a gift.  He called off all the names, and each child came forth for his.  Shari got a ball, David a car, and Anne a Jump-rope.  Then at dinner they had fancy hats and poppers again.
   
I forgot to mention that on Christmas Eve our kiddies hung up their stockings in the cabin with great confidence.  (We have told them clearly about Santa Claus or rather the absence of him, and they understand, but they like to carry out the usual acts.)  Daddy and Mommie had had too full a week previously to think about this need very much although we had looked at a few things in London at very high prices for minor things.  So we were a bit concerned about what we should put in the stockings.  However, John remembered the parcel that the Bushes had given him in Bristol.  After the kiddies were asleep, we opened it and found two lovely gifts for each child and one each for Daddy and Mommie—all beautifully packed and wrapped in Christmas paper.   We hadn’t given the kiddies much hope the night before, so they were really surprised to find the gifts beside their stockings in the morning.

Christmas over, I can now tell you more about the journey.  We had a wonderful view of Gibraltar.   It is a great rock jutting out into the sea, with sturdy houses (probably for military) all along one side.  Of course we could not see many of the fortifications, but the Rock must be a network of them inside and out.  Our boat drew up within a quarter of a mile of the Rock, sent off some mail, then sailed along the other side of it, so we got a real good view and were able to take a couple of pictures.  But Gibraltar, in these atomic bombing days, is not perfectly safe or the people on or in it; but, if we are established on our ROCK , Christ, we need not fear anything this old world can bring out.



For the next three of four days, we sailed close to the coast of Africa, seeing land most of the time.  We saw the city of Algiers and were amazed to see how large and modern it is—at least from a distance of a mile or so.  This is probably all we shall see of Africa, so we were glad to get a look at it.   We passed close to Malta one night, so saw nothing more than a few lights at a great distance.   Except for the second day out, we have had no rough sailing.  The Mediterranean was beautiful.   It began getting warmer as we continued in this sea, and the weather became ideal for getting out on deck.  The nights too are beautiful on deck and many folks take strolls along the spacious decks.

Right after the children’s supper at 5 pm, we take them on deck and sitting as close together as possible we sing our choruses and hymns, say our Scripture verses, read the Word, and have prayer.   Sometimes the wind, or the sound of the bow of the ship meeting the water, makes it difficult for us to hear one another, but generally it is fine.  These hours have been a joy to us.  Wide wide as the ocean, Deep and Wide, and Jesus, Savior, pilot me, become very real on the deck of a ship sailing through sea and ocean.

When we made reservations for our tables in the Dining Room at the start of our trip, we asked to be put at a table with Indian people.  We have been so happy in the way we feel the Lord guided in the arrangements.   At our table are Mr. and Mrs. Shanta, a young Indian couple returning from studies in America  Mr. Shanta came to America on the same ship as I did (The General Gordon)  three years ago.  Then there is Mrs. Sethi, returning to Punjab to be with her young son and parents.  Her husband is in the military in England.  The Shantas and Mrs. Sethi are Hindus.  Then there is Miss Silloo Billimoria, a Parsi girl, returning to Bombay from London after studying violin.   We have had a delightful time with these friends, with many opportunities for witness, especially in answer to their own questions.   We are grateful for this contact with the Parsi community through Silloo.  We will meet her again in Bombay.

There are about 20 missionaries in Tourist, and six or seven in First Class – almost all going to India.  We have been meeting at 10 each morning for Bible Study and prayer.  For a time we discussed a book on the deeper life, Bone of His Bone, but felt soon we could benefit  more through a study of Romans Chapters 6, 7, & 8.   Workers from various missions were present, from different backgrounds, but the LORD unified us by His Spirit, and we had good times together.

Today passengers were shown around the engine room.   We were guided down narrow stairs into a room where giant generators were purring away, also all the intricate machinery necessary for a ship of 26,000 tons.   It is quite comfortable on the hottest days on the decks, but in the engine room one wonders that anyone can survive a few hours in such heat.   Tomorrow we are to be brought to the Bridge, the section devoted to the steering of the ship.  David will then get to see the man who drives the boat; he has always wanted to see him.

Today the children’s sports were held on sports deck.  There were races for all years under 12 – potato race, sack race, etc.  Anne came first in the potato race and David came second in the sack race, so they each received a prize.  Shari was a bit sick yesterday, so we didn’t let her run, much as she wanted to.  Anne got a car, and David got a “Strathaird” pin for prizes.  This afternoon the children had a Fancy Dress Tea Party.  Some were dressed as fairies, brownies, one as a Chinamnan, another as a cowboy, a walky talky doll, etc.  Anne wanted very much to dress up, but we had nothing to use.  Finally we made a dress from Christmas wrappings, one for Shari from the ship’s paper napkins, and then we draped David in the large bath towels of the ship and sent him forth as Gandhi.  They might have won prizes for the oddest costumes.




I think we were in the Mediterranean when I left off telling you something of the sights along the way.  We arrived in Port Said on Friday morning about 5 am.  We were allowed to go on shore, so we had a walk around the city for a couple of hours.  David shouted when he saw his first palm tree.  Many things in Port Said reminded us of Bombay.  It was warm there, and mostly everyone was in light, loose clothing.  We saw the horse gharries, so typical of Bombay.  Our kiddies were thrilled by seeing a little Egyptian riding a tiny donkey.  There were many signs of poverty, in spite of the presence also of good stores.   Anne mentioned later that, if the Egyptians had only treated the children of Israel better, the latter would have stayed in Egypt and there would not have been so much poverty!   We saw the statue of the architect of the Suez Canal.  All along the docks, small boys were selling fish and crabs.





We went back on board about 10:30 and from the decks watched the vendors in small boats selling their wares to folks on board our boat.  Shouting back and forth, showing their carpets, baskets, etc.,  they would strike a bargain, the vendor  would send the article up by a rope, and the customer would send the money back in a little bag.  This is a very common practice in all Eastern ports.  The vendors charge much more than the article is worth, but many passengers are willing to buy them for souvenirs


It took our ship about 12 hours to go through the Suez Canal.  This is a very narrow place, with not enough room for two big ships to pass very comfortable.   As a result, there are wide spots here and there where big boats stop until the way is clear for them.   On one side of the canal (and sometimes of both sides) there was a fine road and railway tracks.  For quite a distance after we left Port Said, people walked or drove along the road waving goodbye.  We were able to get just a small idea of the immensity of the task of making this canal between the Mediterranean and the Red Sea.


After leaving the Canal, we were soon in the Red Sea.  We talked with the children about how God had turned back the waters of this sea to let the children of Israel through.   We marveled that the Sea should be so large; often we could not see either shore.   The kiddies enquired whether Pharoah and his army were still at the bottom of the sea.  They wondered too why the sea was not red, when it is called the Red Sea.   We saw Mt. Sinai at in the distance, but not clearly.



It kept getting warmer each day as we sailed towards Aden, our next stop.  However we arrived in Aden about 5 am and had to leave again at 8:00 so we did not go ashore.  (The ship did not actually dock at Aden, but ferry boats took passengers to the shores)  The shops of Aden open early when a boat is there, so many passengers brought back souvenirs.  From the decks of our boat, we watched small boys diving for coins.

Since leaving Aden, our hearts have been filled with expectation of seeing Bombay in a few days.  Each hour brings us nearer to our home and labors there.  The ship travels only about 20 miles per hour, but we are thankful it isn’t working on an eight-hour day but plods along the full 24 hours.  So our sailing rate runs between 400 and 450 miles each day when we do not stop.   We are preparing our baggage for disembarking, also our customs declaration forms.   We are due to arrive in Bombay at 5 am, Saturday January 7th, although we may be a bit late.   A few days ago the drummer of the dance orchestra had to undergo a serious operation, and, to give the surgeon every advantage, the ship ran very slowly for more than two hours.  But the drummer died in the morning, and was buried at sea in the evening.  In a double sense, he missed getting HOME.   So many of us with the Gospel message on board, but totally unable to get it to this dying man.

We will leave you now, but will try to add a few lines after we land.   Pray for us, that we may be faithful unto Him who has called us .

Ephesians 6:18 – 20  
18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints;
19 And for me, that utterance may be given unto me, that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the mystery of the gospel,
20 For which I am an ambassador in bonds: that therein I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.

                                                                                                  With love from us all,

Wednesday, March 19, 2014

1949 November 26th (11) Buffam Family leave the USA for India


1949 November 26th  Daddy and Mummy leave the USA for India

A letter from Mummy to her Mother.

326 Dalphin St
Baltimore, Md
Nov 20, 1949

Dearest Mother,




Grandma Scott with 4 granddaughters born in the same year.
Sharon Grace, Carol Crawford, Linda Scott, Rosemary Brown

I want to get a note off to you before we leave for Elizabethtown tonight.   We have been busy here, but have certainly had a lovely place to finish up loose ends and get things done.  Have washed some things here at Dorothy’s and a lady downstairs is ironing the shirts we did not get done.  Dorothy and I have been down town shopping a couple of times getting little things still needed.  Dorothy wanted me to pick them out.  She has been so good to us.  She met us at the station and we came home here about 7 pm on Thursday.  She has a nice roomy place here and we have all had a bed to ourselves thanks to a couple of her neighbors nearby.  We have had a good rest both nights.  The train trip here was so easy.  We each had a seat to ourselves to sleep that night.  The Lord prepared all the way.  Kiddies have enjoyed it here.  Different friends have taken them out and relived us.   Did you get the car key?   I’m sorry we went off with that, but I wonder we did not leave or walk away with more things.


Some of the cousins we were leaving:  
 Roger and Curt Mortimer; Sharon, Judy and Rosemary Brown

We go tonight by bus to a town near here, and then get a ride to Elizabethtown with someone from there.  That saves us about $10.00. We will have the services there tomorrow.  Dorothy goes with us.  We expect to return here on Monday and go by train to NY about mid-night, Monday arriving there in the early morning.  That will give us a full day to do the rest of our business there. 

We have had word that the sewing machine, phonograph, toaster, iron are all available and being delivered to the boat.  Now if we have enough to pay for them all will be well.  The Lord knows.  There was no bill sent to us.  I don’t know why.

Love from us all.  Wonder if you got the letter from the kiddies written in the station in Chicago.  Anne is writing Sharon and Judy now.

More and More and More love,  Eunice   XXXXXXXX

Be near the telephone Tuesday evening.  John and Dorothy want me to call.  It only costs about $1.75.  Till then much love, and kisses.   John, David, Shari, Anne


A long long letter typed on carbon probably sent to both families.
Aboard the “Queen Elizabeth”
Nov 26, 1949

Dear Ones,

Ps. 107:7, 8   He led them forth by the right way, that they might go to a city of habitation.  Oh, that men would praise the Lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men.  

Vs 23, 24  They that go down to the sea in ships, that do business in great waters, these see the works of the lord, and His wonders in the deep.   

Vs 30 Then are they glad., because they be quiet;  so He brings them unto their desired have.  Oh, that men would praise the Lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men.

FAITH has become sight, and we are really on our way at last, being wafted along over the Atlantic on this gigantic ship which is more like a great moving hotel than anything else.   It is too big and we are so far away from the water (at least in Tourist Class) that we hardly feel we are on a boat at all.
However, before I take you all for a tour around the “Queen Elizabeth,”  let me first tell you of some of the LORD”s doings all along the way since we left you all on Wednesday, Nov. 16th at Baraboo, just 10 days ago.  

 The train trip from Madison to Chicago was a speedy one on the Flyer; we were in Chicago by 7:30 pm.  Just as we sat down in our seats, after waving good-bye to you all at the station, a lady in the seat behind us spoke to us.  She said she had overheard that we were on our way to India, and that she was also a missionary from India, retired.  So we had much in common with her especially since she knew quite a number of people in India whom we knew.  Her name is Mrs. J. H. Wilkis and she is now living in Vancouver; she was in Madison visiting her brother.  This fellowship with her helped to keep our minds quiet, when we were so full of thoughts of leaving you all.   “He goeth before.”  He is touched with the feeling of our infirmities.  He knoweth our frame;  He remembers that we are dust.

We faced a real problem when arriving in Chicago with twelve pieces of luggage, and the charge for a redcap fifteen cents for carrying each piece.  This would not be so bad if it meant only one trip; but we had to change stations, and our next train did not leave until 11 pm.  This meant several exchanges of location for our luggage.  Therefore we decided, since we had plenty of time, to work by relays and carry our luggage ourselves.  Since our cases were mostly small, this plan worked out all right.   Anne, David, and Shari helped out with the smaller ones.  When we were getting on the train at 10:30, though, Anne tripped on a step with a small case and a redcap came along, piled all our belongings on a cart, including the three kiddies, and pushed them along the long platform to the train, meanwhile saying that he would not charge us for doing so.  We gave him something,, for he was surely a good sport.   

There was plenty of room on the train so we each had a full seat.  This LORD provided a sleeper, second class, but comfortable.  We missed all the scenery that night, but from early morning we enjoyed mountain views of the Adirondacks.  There was some snow, and the picture was lovely.  The children enjoyed watching the mountain streams, and were thrilled by the snow.  It was probably their last look at snow for a long time, unless we see a bit in England.

We enjoyed a good breakfast from the lunch-box.  Mother, you and Edith surely planned a good one.  Along with the one Helen Kirkpatrick gave us in Madison, we had an abundance for the three meals we ate on this trip.  The missionary friend whom we met on the train from Madison gave the kiddies a box of candy, and this went along nicely after meals.   

 We arrived in Pittsburgh about 8:00 in the morning (Thursday) and were crossing Pennsylvania all that day.  The children had a good rest in the afternoon, as there was plenty of room on the train.  When we arrived in Baltimore at 5 pm, Dorothy was there to meet us.   It was surely good to see her, and my how it helped to have her to guide as to the taxi, etc.   We managed the luggage here again by relays.

When we arrived at Dorothy’s apartment, two of her neighbors came down the steps to help us with the cases—up two long flights.  While we were getting settled in Dorothy’s comfy apartment (Simplicity Hall, she calls it), these two neighboring girls, music students, brought in the supper they had prepared.  Dorothy explained later that they had asked if they might do this for her friends.  That night these girls went to sleep in another place, and let Dorothy and me have their beds.   Soon two other young girls came in, neighbors also, and asked if Anne could sleep in their room, since they had an extra cot.  So, with the assistance of the neighbors, Dorothy was able to care for us royally.   

While we were in Baltimore, we went one evening to a Youth for Christ meeting.  Dr. Oswald Smith was the speaker;  he is the pastor of People’s Church in Toronto, which supports over 100 missionaries.  He emphasized that the whole church should bear the burden of the evangelization of the world, and that such an enormous task should not be given alone to a small group of women in the church.  He said that Women’s Missionary Societies are not Scriptural.  We were so glad to hear this thrilling missionary message—the last one we heard in America. 

 Dorothy and I went out shopping a few times, and picked up little things still needed.  Dorothy added to the medical supplies which Gladys had sent from Minneapolis for which we were so grateful.  We found some good T-shirts for the kiddies, size 10 for only 19 cents, and some fine summer underwear.   Also some nylons, plastic table covers, and a lot of other things from the dime store, including some children’s records for the phonograph.

On Saturday evening, we took a bus to a point about twelve miles from the city, where a Christian brother, Bro. Stippick met us with his car and took us to Westminster.  Bro Heydt, President of the Lancaster School of the Bible, was in Westminster that evening, and he kindly drove us to Lancaster, and then practicing the principle of the “second mile”, brought us right to the Lefevers’ door in Elizabethtown, PA where we desired to go that night.   It was a two hour drive from Westminster, and we did not get to Elizabethtown until midnight.  The Lefevers had to be away that weekend, but had made every preparation for us to occupy their home during our stopover there.   It was only about two years ago that we first met the Lefevers, and other friends in Elizabethtown, but what these two years have meant to us.   All was ready for us to turn in, which we did in short order.   

 In the morning, the Lord’s Day, we went to Bible School and church, and met a good number of friends again.  In the afternoon, everyone got caught up on lost sleep, and got ready for the evening service.  Of course, Dorothy was with us throughout; we would not leave her behind!  John and I both spoke at the evening service, and then said good-bye to all the folks after wards.  The offering that night was over $80.00.    “The Lord loadeth us with benefits.”  

We stayed the night at the Lefevers and went the next day out to the “little cottage in the woods’   just to see the little place again.  Our visit brought back happy memories of Christmas two years ago.  Anne remembered the cottage, and David a little.   After brief fellowship with the Keeners, who own the cottage, but have set it apart for the use of missionaries while they are on the field, we went to lunch with the Hoffman Garbers, remained at their home until three o’clock.  We delayed our return to Baltimore as long as possible hoping that the Lafevers might return from their trip, but finally, with great regret, had to leave without seeing them.  Bro. and Sister Garber drove us to Baltimore in their brand new “50 Ford.

That evening Dorothy gave us a large wooden box, and we packed into it everything we had collected along the way;  also most of that which was in the old suitcases we wanted to discard.  She also gave us a nice steamer trunk, which took care of the rest of the things we wanted in our cabin on board.  

Just as we were completing our packing, a friend of Dorothy’s called to say that Bro Eric Frykenberg was speaking in Baltimore that night and would be coming to see us after the meeting.  We had planned on getting on the train at 10:00 pm and put the kiddies right to bed, since although the train did not leave until 2 am, people were permitted to get on after 10pm.  But now, with Bro Frykenberg coming, we knew we could not get away so early, so put the children to bed.  We had a good time with him… he is with the Conservative Baptist, and took over the Baptist church from John when he left Bombay.  He indicated that the Indian government is clamping down on evangelistic missionaries, and that such may have to take jobs of some kind in India;  so John may go back to printing and newspaper business—The Lord will guide in this.   

About midnight we all went by taxi to the station, got settled in the train, and “went to bed” as before—with a seat for each of us.   We were able to check all our things on Dorothy’s ticket, so did not have much more lugging.

We all slept well except Dorothy.  She said she was as wide awake as an owl. (Oh, by the way, Edith and Rodney, Dorothy was surely glad for the apples from you. )  When we awoke at 6 am we were drawing into Jersey City.  They said we could stay on the train until 7:30, so we had our breakfast from the basket and our devotions from the book.  Then we got off, and on to a ferry to New York City.  

We could see the Statue of Liberty quite clearly from the train and the ferry, but were on the wrong side of the “ Queen Elizabeth” to see her on the way out.  The ferry brought us and our luggage to a point very near the Neptune Forwarding Co., with who we had arranged to care for all  the luggage sent from Baraboo.  Upon arriving at the Forwarding Co., the first word we got was the the two largest cases sent by Railway express had not yet arrived.  Having committed the matter to the LORD (we were then prepared to arrive in India minus half our luggage), we got on with what was there.   

They took us down to the baggage room, which was very cold, and gave us the parcels that had arrived.  The one from Bob in Chicago (for Carol in India) was there;  also the toaster, iron, phonograph, a few batteries, etc. for India friends—but no sewing machine.   

We called the Evangelical Foreign Missions Assn., which was caring for our major purchases, and learned that we could not get a Singer in time, but that we might have a New Home if we wished.  (Our difficulty lay in getting the correct voltage for Bombay, which differs from America)  Although this machine took almost our last dollar, we had prayed about the purchase with Dorothy and felt we ought to order it.

But I was writing about our time at the Neptune Forwarding Co.  The employees in this company are Christians, and what a difference it makes.  They were so nice and you felt they really meant it when they said they would do all they could about our missing luggage.  Just as we got all our boxes rearranged, about 11 am (all the luggage was supposed to be on the Queen Elizabeth by noon)  we heard the glad news that our largest trunk and folding bed had just arrived.  We saw it as it was unloaded.  So with thankful hearts, and a sort of tender feeling towards these wayward pieces, we completed all details for them to be transferred to the ship.   

Upon returning to the office, we found that, during all the time we were below, Dorothy had been playing school with the kiddies in an effort to keep them reasonably quiet in that business office.  However, one or two of the men assured us they had little ones of their own worse than ours.

We took the subway to the great Pennsylvania Station from where we would have to leave that night for the Missionary Home where we had arranged to spend the night.  We put all our bags, etc. into lockers in the station, then we went empty handed and happy into an Automat restaurant to get a bit to eat.  The kiddies were thrilled with the process of putting in nickels and taking sandwiches, milk, etc., from the containers.  Having Dorothy with us helped so much.  Each one of us took a child, and in that way were able to make headway through the awful noonday crowd in the Automat.    

After leaving this exciting but stuffy place, we went to Macy’s department store across the street, going by the escalators to the fourth floor.  Dorothy and I did a bit of shopping , while John made telephone calls to New York friends for a couple of hours.  The kiddies got very tired, but were able to tag along all afternoon with out rest.   We could not find any sort of restroom where we might put them to sleep.

About six o’clock we started for the Missionary Home.  It was a ride of over an hour on the subway and bus.  The children loved it at first, but soon all were rocked to sleep except David—he stuck it out, and enjoyed the trip to the end, asking innumerable questions.   

After leaving the subway, it was still a good half-hour’s trip on the bus, but we were brought very near our destination.  This Missionary Home is sponsored by the Metropolitan Church Association – a group of evangelical churches following the old-time Methodist line of Scriptural understanding.  We had been recommended to the folks in New York by their Deaconess Home in Minneapolis, where we had enjoyed sweet fellowship.  This present fellowship proved to be likewise vital and good.  It was worth the long trip out just to meet the folks.  They had supper all prepared for us, even though it was two hours after the time of their own meal.  Immediately afterwards, we put the kiddies to bed;  but the girls made much over the kids, bringing them toys, etc. that Anne, David, and Shari got so wound up that it was very late when they finally went off to sleep.

It was after the kiddies got asleep, Mother, that I called you.   I was surely glad to be able to say Hello to you too, Dot.  Dorothy urged me to call, and it meant a lot to me.  John called his brother, Harold in Perth, Ontario, and also Bro. Lafever in Elizabethtown.     It was past midnight again before we got to bed, and we had to be up at 5:30 to prepare for breakfast at 6:30 and to get off at 7:00 for the boat. 

We had a lovely time at breakfast with the entire missionary family.  Bro Sammis asked Shari to sing, but she turned temperamental for the moment;  then he asked Anne to pray, and she prayed very sweetly.  Before we left the girls gave Anne a plastic toy telephone,  David a helicopter to run on deck, and Shari a baby doll;  also to each a Bible story book.  We told them we would carry greetings to their co workers, the Fordhams, in India for whom we are bringing quite a bit of material.

Bro. Sammis drove us to the subway station, so we did not require the bus again.  At Pennsylvania Station we met Regina Hansen,



whom we had intended to meet the previous evening but had gotton our wires crossed.  At this point, John and I hurried out to a nearby store and made our last purchase in America – more dried milk and eggs for our English friends; (insert from Shari… this is just at the end of WWII and England had severe rationing)   then we all took a taxi to the boat.  

There at the pier we got into a behive of activity and excitement, but directions were so simple and plainly marked that we had no real difficulty in finding our way about.   As we had come near the pier in the taxi, we saw the ‘Queen Elizabeth”  for the first time and marveled that any ship could be so BIG! In spite of the fact that about 2500 passengers were embarking between 8:00 and 11:00, the task of getting on board was comparatively simple-much more so than we have ever experienced before.   Within 15 minutes from the time we arrived at the pier, we were walking up the gangplank with Dorothy and Regina – and of course with the three kiddies with their exclamations of surprise.

On board we were directed to our cabin.  We went down several sets of stairs, walked miles, it seemed along corridors, until we finally found our little nook.  We were all interested in looking around the cabin, all so neatly and comfortably arranged.  There were two double decker bunks, and a crib for Shari.  Even though she graduated from the crib stage long ago, she was delighted with this all though the voyage.     

Soon Bro. Procter Davis, director of a Jewish mission in New York City, and a long time friend, came to visit us.   We had prayer together, commending one another to the grace and guidance of the Lord, then we went searching for an outside deck where we might take some pictures.  We hurriedly took some pictures, since the stewards were clanging bells and shouting that all visitors must go ashore.  As we rushed toward the gangplank, Dorothy remembered that she had left her overnight case in the cabin, so John made a dash through the crowds, and finally returned with the case in good time.  We said fond farewells to Dorothy and Regina.

As we were standing at the gangplank, on board, wondering which way we might go to see Dorothy and Regina from the deck, a man stepped up and asked us if we were the Buffams.   It was Mr. Kelly of the Kelly Travel Agency in New York.  He had cared for all our travel arrangements, and had come on board looking for a needle in a haystack; but he found the needle before he came to the haystack:   We had a good visit with him, until he was urged to leave by the gangplank attendant. 

After finding a deck facing the pier, we sought to locate Dorothy amongst the crowds waiting to see the ship sail.  Regina had to get back to work, so had gone.   Finally we saw Dorothy, but were too far away to talk back and forth.  Later, on board, we saw a photograph, taken by the ship’s photographers, showing Dorothy in the group with her had raised in  sign language!  Soon the gang planks were removed and the “Queen” began to move slowly away from the pier.  In just a few minutes we lost sight of Dorothy.   It was good to see her there as we sailed, especially since none of our families was there.

The kiddies waved good-bye long after their efforts could be seen by Dorothy.  Then we realized, for the first time, that the good old “Queen Elizabeth” was HOME for us, at least for the next five days.
 

Our hearts were deeply thankful, as we returned to our cabin, for the long furlough in America, but even more so that we had actually set out on the long 12,000 mile trip to our little home and labors among the Jews and gentiles of Bombay.

Much Much love to all,

John and Eunice, Anne, David and Shari

Personal written letter sent along with the printed one?


Cunard White Star
R.M.S. “Queen Elizabeth
Nov. 27, 1949

Dearest Mother,

I have just put the children into the playroom, so I can write you a note from the boat.  We have had a lovely trip.  The weather has been fine until today, Sunday.  It has rained most of the day, but we would not know it down here.  We went up on deck this morning and were nearly blown away so haven’t ventured up again.  

When we first got on board we spent a lot of time sleeping.  Then getting ready for 3 meals a day – 


pretty lazy life.   We have had ample clothes and oh, the best of all have been the long corduroys.  The kiddies have worn them every day.  No ironing allowed so I was glad for Corduroy and t- shirts that didn’t have to be ironed.   Dorothy got Shari and Anne 3 t- shirts in Baltimore so that filled the bill fine.  The little skirt you made looks so nice with a white T shirt.  She wore it for Sunday School on the boat today.  We had Sunday School for the children on board.

Most of the news is in the long letter.   Hope you can read this, the pen is bad and the boat is rocking.

Love Love to you my dear dear mother,
Eunice